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Why does my Alpha Cat jump on my lap?

Why does my Alpha Cat jump on my lap?

Perhaps the most classical component of the alpha cat syndrome is petting-induced aggression. Alphas will jump up on your lap and allow themselves to be petted – but only for a short while. And when they’ve had enough, they narrow their eyes, glance sideways at the petting hand, and their tail begins to switch from side to side.

How to deal with an aggressive Alpha Cat?

To avoid this situation, keep petting sessions short and never try to pet your way out of an aggressive moment. Put your cat’s toys away and supply them only when he has done something to deserve them. Allow the cat free access to the toy until he loses interest and then pick it up and replace it in the toy chest (or drawer).

Can a Alpha cat bite you in the morning?

You don’t own an alpha cat – he owns you, or at least, he thinks he does. When alphas don’t get their own way, they bully and pressure you into immediate action. They may bite your nose or toes to get you out of bed in the morning.

Why do some cats have the Alpha Cat syndrome?

Cats are supposed to be warm and friendly creatures, seeking owner approval, petting and cuddles and purring their way through peaceful evenings at home. But not all cats are this amiable or this compliant. Some have an agenda of their own and seemingly refuse to take no for an answer. These are “alpha cats.”

Cats are supposed to be warm and friendly creatures, seeking owner approval, petting and cuddles and purring their way through peaceful evenings at home. But not all cats are this amiable or this compliant. Some have an agenda of their own and seemingly refuse to take no for an answer. These are “alpha cats.”

How can I tell if my cat is an Alpha Cat?

First, break down the problem behavior to determine your cat’s basic motivation, beyond personality labels. Often this is food, access (to a favorite spot or litter box), attention, play, or a need to feel safe. You can find more about motivation in this post. Alpha? Not so much!

You don’t own an alpha cat – he owns you, or at least, he thinks he does. When alphas don’t get their own way, they bully and pressure you into immediate action. They may bite your nose or toes to get you out of bed in the morning.

To avoid this situation, keep petting sessions short and never try to pet your way out of an aggressive moment. Put your cat’s toys away and supply them only when he has done something to deserve them. Allow the cat free access to the toy until he loses interest and then pick it up and replace it in the toy chest (or drawer).